AFF un nighthawk10101
--aka jason__m on Yahoo!, alistener123456 on Yahoo! Personals, and Aladdin Sane elsewhere.

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"I'm a Believer" --The Monkees

Mick Jagger's complaint notwithstanding in most ways I am pretty easy to satisfy. (To Jimi: "I'm experienced.")

I believe in openness.

I believe that sexually I should be able to participate in any applicable style (sorry just can't get in to guys). The range from completely casual-friendly to totally romantic-Shakespearean sexual relationship is what I'm referring to.

I like sexually equality, parity and compassionate compromise in the bedroom. That doesn't mean that I'd reject participating in fantasy that didn't include those qualities. I believe that I should participate in anything that maximizes her pleasure.

Back there in the 82d Airborne Division one paratrooper opined that parachuting is better than sex. May I respectfully disagree with my ex-teammate? Jumping is definitely a natural high, but lacks the involvement of good sex.

If, as I have claimed, a relationship consists *entirely* of communication, some have asked, "What about sex?" My answer to them is always, "If sex isn't communication to you, you've missed the point of sex."

I love sex, but I'm more interested in relationships, including just sexual. Art of Relationship is actually an intellectual endeavor of mine.

Most of my friends would say I have a shy or introverted personality. Those who know me well would call me "complex."

My first lover was very deep into what most would call "analyzing the relationship." Fortunately she was very accurate, objective and even wise.

Allow me to submit as proof of my interest that my last college major was Psychology, with a minor in Women's Studies. The least boring class I took was Human Sexuality. Everyone should take it.

If any of this seems attractive to you, please write me.

I am also relatively "wordy and verbose," in case you hadn't noticed. I also enjoy listening when conversing, and frequently form non-sexual relationships with women, who I find much easier to listen to then men. Since one of women's main complaints about men is, "He doesn't listen," I'll shut the hell up now.

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I am completely open as to type.

I actually prefer something new to something I've already experienced. I have no idea how many women I have had sex with, because I believe that quality is more important than quantity, I don't keep count.

But more than one whose counsel I've taken to heart has pointed out that no matter what that number is, it is nothing in comparison to the 3 billion women in the world.

Therefore there is plenty of opportunity for a new experience.